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 ’Caribbean Girl’ by Shara
I love the quote you just posted about being alone. It's hard though, something I've definitely be struggling with lately. Do you have any advice?


Hi Dear,

Being alone is very hard. We are naturally social creatures. We crave that connection with others. But a lot of times, we fear being alone because we have to deal with ourselves. We have to reconcile all the different parts of ourself and figure out who we truly are, what we want and need, and we must define ourselves and our lives. And a lot of times, people, instead of facing themselves, and doing the work that needs to be done to be at peace within themselves and find joy inside, they constantly have people around them and not only is that distracting, but its harmful to need constant reaffirmation from others. You do not want to always need to attach to something outside of yourself in order to find fulfillment. What happens when there is nobody to attach to? It is easier to be alone and really get to know yourself and go through those growing pains, than it is to do what seems easier. 

The best advice I have for you, is to talk to somebody detattched from your life, write in a journal, work out, do yoga, meditate, travel, read, do whatever you need to do in order to fall in love with yourself and be okay with who you are. Live life. And when you are ready, you will no longer be alone. Continue to put positivity, love, faith, and hope into the Universe. I did that for years, and my patience and hard work paid off. I still struggle. I’m still learning myself and growing, and I am lucky enough to have somebody by my side who is willing to go through it all with me. 

So do not give up. Keep going. You will be okay. Trust in your journey and in the Universe

Peace & Light,
Des <3



*freezes popsicles standing straight up so as not to cut off that lil piece when i open it*

Next level.



*freezes popsicles standing straight up so as not to cut off that lil piece when i open it*

Next level.

2, 22, 42, 50

2: Do you miss anyone?

atm, not really. but during my moments of nostalgia there’s an ex whom i think of and had some very special moments with.

22: Have you kissed three or more people in one night?

gawds no! am such a germaphobic.

42: Where did you get the shirt/sweatshirt you’re wearing?

I snag this cool white t from my sister’s closet when I was house-sitting for her whilst she was on vacation. I hope she doesn’t miss it ‘cos i’m really diggin this t lolz.

50: Think of the last person who said I love you, do you think they meant it?

 yep I think they did. if not then its gonna be problematic lolz jk



The whole side chick main chick bullshit is boys trying to create a pop culture in which cheating on the woman you’re with is considered cool or normal.

Don’t perpetuate it.

 read this. understand this. and stop allowing this shit to be perpetuated and perceived as “light hearted” or a “joke.”  It’s really fucking gross.

countdown to twd: 26 days  [3/8] female characters
I was just another monster. And I was… I was gone for a long time.